Readercon write up

Jul. 24th, 2025 09:29 pm
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Subsequent events notwithstanding, I had a swell time at Readercon. I opted to get in a day early to give myself time to adjust to jet lag and get in some writing time and seeing as I got my plane tickets five months ago when I was still employed, I opted to go first class for the first time in my life. It was indeed all that - the food is quite good, the seats are comfy, baggage check is included and people pop by to give you beverages and munchies on the regular. I watched the new Kathy Bates "Matlock" on the way out and back and took in an episode of "Elspeth" while I was at it since if I had Paramount, I'd be canceling it at home.

I also took Lyft for the first time - I was a loyal taxi rider until the local company I used for years abandoned Jana and me at the Amtrek station in downtown St. Paul on the way back from Chicon 8 and Jana tried to befriend the nice people smoking various substances and I had to call a friend to rescue us. The Lyft experience went quite smoothly and I expect to be using it again. Apart from that, the hotel was reasonably pleasant and I got some work underway. I do miss the days when there were things to watch on hotel TVs though; pickings were slim.

The convention kicked off on Thursday night and while wandering around the lobby after dinner with dave ring of Neon Hemlock, I ran into author Laura Antoniou and her wife Karen (Laura was one of my editors back in the day and I was in Laura's online play reading group during lockdown) and we had a delightful time hanging out. Friday morning, I was on the Sustaining the Small Press Ecosystem panel, which I thought went well - good discussion all around. My delightful roommate, Julia (SparkyMonster) arrived and got settled in and I went off to do the Broad Universe reading. That was a bit of a minor trainwreck as I had been added in the program, but the organizer was unaware of that fact and neither she nor I had signed me up for it. But apart from the that, the readings were good and someone fed me chocolate so that made up for the confusion.

I got into some good chats with Will Alexander, Cecilia Tan and various folks that I know from online and elsewhere. Con staff were very kind - I was sitting in the lobby waiting for something or other and a con staffer stopped by to see how I was doing, for example. My Saturday panels were fun as well and I loved having the chance to reconnect with Julia, who I've known for a zillion years. I also schmoozed a book dealer in hopes of getting us into the Worldcon Dealer's Room in Seattle and chatted with editor Julia Day for a bit. I got briefly swarmed by delightful fans of my werewolf books who had me sign copies and all, so that was extra cool.

All in all, got in a lot of quality time with old friends, met some delightful new ones, enjoyed the programming I went to, enjoyed the programming I was on and had a great time. 10/10 - would recommend!

Anne Shaw RIP

Jul. 23rd, 2025 08:18 pm
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So this was going to be a post about Readercon and my trip, which was great. But today, I got some terrible news so posting about that first. I've been trying to reach my friend Anne in Des Moines for a couple of weeks now, which was not normal. We generally text at least once a week or so, but I figured that something was wrong with her phone or she was busy or something. Today I looked at our last texts and got worried. She had mentioned not feeling well, but thought it was a cold or the flu. I went looking for an alternate contact. And found her obituary. She died within 24 hours of our last texts.

I met Anne through her sister Beth, who I met through volunteering at KFAI Radio. Beth was a great friend and we shared a love of small theater productions, international music and fun cultural events, all of which we attended for a number of years.Unfortunately, Beth was diagnosed with ALS and chose to end her life rather than have her condition deteriorate further. I got to know her sister Anne a bit before Beth got sick, then a lot better as she took care of Beth, Beth got sicker and then left us. Beth died in 2019 and my mother died in early 2020, around the same time that Jana began showing signs of dementia and our city was on fire. Anne and I used to take long walks around the neighborhood and chat after Jana went to bed. In 2021, she had to move to Des Moines to take care of their parents. She took care of her dad until he died and continued taking care of her mom and her rescue cats, including one of Beth's until she passed away several weeks ago.

This year just keeps leaving bigger holes in my life and I hate it. Rest well, Anne.

May 2020

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